Long distance cycling has delivered many lessons that have contributed to me helping FAs run better businesses and live better lives.
An obvious fact about riding a bike is that it’s easier to ride with a tailwind. The problem with this, of course, is that you don’t get better, stronger, or faster riding with a tailwind. That usually comes by riding uphill or into a headwind or both. Where’s the fun in that, right?
Don’t worry, this is not another “no-pain, no-gain” lecture! Instead, here are 3 things you can do to make your own tailwind. Each is guaranteed to contribute to your success and happiness in business and in life. When the real world is not giving you a tailwind, implementing these ideas will make it feel like you have one anyway.
1. Attitude
We were in Alta, Utah this past January for our annual ski trip and mastermind week when first-timer, Michael, who had just met Judy the day before, said “Judy, you just glow! I really like you. You exude this terrific energy which is totally contagious.” How’s that for a spontaneous compliment? He’s right. Judy does glow with a radiant positive attitude. How can you get one?
2. Work smarter
Evaluate what you do when you are at work to determine how much of what you do is rea l work that leads to a better client experience, better client outcomes, and adding more ideal clients versus how much is just busy work that could be dropped completely or delegated to someone else.
Start by looking at your calendar. How many appointments do you have with clients? What do you actually do on those appointments with your clients? Are you pretty much on auto-pilot with a market update and a few comments about being on track? Or are you asking great questions and uncovering more opportunities to elevate their experience and results in ways that could provide more value to them and more revenue and business for you? Do your client meetings feel proactive or reactive?
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What does your calendar say about how much time you invest in acquiring new clients, especially ideal clients? Most advisors say they want more ideal clients. Upon examination of the reality of where their time goes, unless those future clients fall from the sky, this goal will not be achieved. It’s no secret that the most successful advisors work with fewer clients for higher per client revenue. Acquiring those clients comes from consistent, proactive client acquisition activity.
After evaluating your time and determining how much of your so-called “work” hours are really not productive, you can convert some of that wasted time into activities that are more fruitful and take some of that time off. After all, if you’re not really doing something productive anyway… go home and have some fun with the people you care about.
3. Relax
Lower your expectations. Take a breath. Take the pressure off. This may seem like odd advice from the trainer and coach of top advisors with over-achiever tendencies, but sometimes it’s the right formula. Another new Alta Mastermind ski tripper, Jeff, was frustrated because he wasn’t feeling passionate about his FS business. Somewhere along the way he picked up a belief that he’s supposed to be passionate , especially if he wants to go to the next level. Where is it written that you have to be passionate about your work? It’s okay to simply enjoy your work. And you don’t have to enjoy it all the time! After all, there is a reason why they call it “work.” Some days suck. Some activities suck. Some people suck. Sometimes clients suck. Some employees suck. You’ve heard the saying, “Find what you love to do and you’ll never work a day in your life.” What a load of crap! Don’t create headwinds for yourself by setting expectations that don’t really matter or are BS. Maybe you can enjoy your work enough so it gives you the money and the freedom to do more of the things you are more passionate about. Like being with your family, your friends, and skiing. Maybe there will be times in your career when you are more passionate than others. Maybe you will have a great career with financial success and excellent client service and never have felt passionate about it. Passion is not a KPI. You can very effectively, with a high degree of skill and confidence, execute the activities that lead to acquiring and serving ideal clients… without passion.
The financial services industry is a tailwind business. The 2 main reasons are:
Headwinds or tailwinds, this is a great business. You can create your ideal life income, have time freedom, and help people. Enjoy your ride.