Want Deeper Client Relationships? Use More Open-Ended Questions

Effective communication is the cornerstone of enduring and trusting relationships. For financial advisors, it’s the key to meaningful client engagement that fosters deeper discussions and stronger connections. At the core of meaningful engagement is asking the right questions.

Open-ended questions, in particular, can transform a conversation, moving it beyond stunted yes or no answers to delve more deeply into what matters to a client—to understand the “why” behind their thinking. Unlike closed-ended questions, which tend to limit responses, open-ended questions encourage an open dialogue full of insights advisors can use to tailor their advice in a way that resonates with the client.

Mastering the art of crafting and asking the right questions is critical to pinpointing client needs, concerns, and priorities while building trust and driving more successful outcomes for your clients.

The importance of open-ended questions

In essence, open-ended questions are the gateway to meaningful conversations, inviting clients to share their thoughts and feelings openly without judgment. Properly crafted open-ended questions create opportunities to uncover goals, fears, and aspirations that might otherwise remain hidden.

For example, the answer to “What does financial freedom mean to you?” provides much richer insight than a question like, “When do you want to retire?”

Furthermore, open-ended questions convey genuine interest, curiosity, and empathy, crucial ingredients to making a personal connection and solidifying the relationship. It shows your clients that you value their perspective and are invested in understanding their unique situation. While asking effective open-ended questions keeps you in control of the conversation, your clients feel they’re taking a more active role in shaping their financial journey.

Most importantly, well-crafted open-ended questions help clients articulate their goals more clearly. In many cases, your clients might have only a vague idea about their financial future. By asking, “How do you see your life changing in the next five to ten years?” you help your clients clarify their aspirations, paving the way for more effective planning.

Crafting effective open-ended questions

Not all open-ended questions are created equal. Crafting questions that resonate requires careful consideration of structure and intent.

#1. Start with “What,” “How,” or “Why”

Questions beginning with these words naturally encourage clients to elaborate. For instance:

  • “What are your biggest priorities as you plan for retirement?”
  • “How do you feel about your progress toward your financial goals?”

#2. Avoid leading or biased questions

Avoid questions that suggest a particular answer or narrow the scope of the response. Instead of asking, “Are you worried about inflation?” try, “What concerns, if any, do you have about the current economic environment?”

#3. Be specific but open-ended

The best questions strike a balance between being broad enough to invite dialogue and specific enough to provide actionable insights. For example:

  • Closed-ended: “Do you want to save for your child’s education?”
  • Open-ended: “What role does your child’s education play in your overall financial plan?”

#3. Keep the focus on the client

The goal is to draw out your client’s thoughts, not to project assumptions. Instead of asking, “Do you think you’ll want to downsize in retirement?” ask, “How do you envision your lifestyle in retirement?”

Tips for using open-ended questions effectively

The impact of open-ended questions depends on how they’re phrased and when and how they’re used.

#1. Begin conversations with open-ended questions

Starting a meeting with a question like, “What inspired you to seek financial advice at this stage of your life?” sets a collaborative and comfortable tone.

#2. Follow up with probing questions

When clients provide an initial response, let your natural curiosity take over and delve deeper. If a client mentions feeling uncertain about their investments, you might ask, “What specific aspects of your portfolio are causing concern?” Or, “Tell me more about that.”

#3. Use active listening

Active listening is key to asking the right questions. Try using some active listening techniques to respond to what your client shares with empathy and attentiveness. Reflecting on their answers or paraphrasing shows you’re genuinely engaged, encouraging them to open up further.

#4. Be mindful of timing and pacing

Bombarding a client with too many questions can be counterproductive. Allow space for them to think and respond fully before moving on.

How to incorporate open-ended questions into client interactions

Incorporating these questions into client interactions can enhance every stage of the advisory process:

First meetings: Begin with broad questions to understand the client’s priorities.

Example: “What inspired you to seek financial advice at this point in your life?”

Portfolio reviews: Gauge client satisfaction and identify potential adjustments.

Example: “How do you feel your current investment strategy aligns with your long-term goals?”

Major life events: Navigate sensitive or significant changes with care.

Example: “What are your main financial priorities as you prepare for retirement?”

Preparation is key. Before each client meeting, take time to consider the individual’s circumstances and prepare a few open-ended questions tailored to their situation. Practice using these questions and reflect on how they shape your interactions.

Start implementing them in your next client meeting. Observe the difference they make in engagement and understanding and use these experiences to refine your approach further.

Related: How Financial Advisors Can Create Engaging Financial Presentations