Most advisors fall into the trap of trying to “sell” in their meetings with prospects.
But pushing for the sale often does more harm than good.
Your prospects don’t want to feel like sold to -- they want to feel understood and supported by you.
So how can you move away from selling and start building trust?
It’s simple: lead with trust.
What does that mean exactly?
It means positioning yourself as a trusted authority, not a salesperson.
When you make that shift, everything changes. Instead of looking for ways to convince them, you focus on being genuinely curious about them as a human being.
Ask the questions that matter.
Find out what’s really going on in their life or business.
Trust isn’t built through slick selling skills and techniques.
It’s built through time, transparency, and genuine interest.
When your prospect feels you have their best interest at heart, they’ll open up to you in ways that are quite revealing and vulnerable.
Trust is a long-term game, and it’s not about rushing in with a sales pitch.
It’s about showing up with the mindset of serving first.
Sometimes the best thing to do is wait, listen, and build trust until your prospects is ready to engage.
This is how trust is built -- not through sales pressure, but through real conversations that show you’re a trusted authority.
The shift is in your mindset -- when you lead with trust and truly listen, the sale happens naturally.
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